Would youlike to become just a teeny bit or even a lot more successful?
Yes? But do you sometimes feel like no matter what you do, you’re stuck in one place, unable to get to that next level.
Somtimes, If we're not careful, we can let our fears take over and prevent us from taking the steps necessary to move into the life we desire.
You see, even though the fear of success is quite common, it's also hard to identify because it's an unconscious behavior. So we may not even realize that something has been there, behind the scenes, holding us back from achieving greatness.
Now if this sounds like it might be you, here's a simple guide to some of the biggest flags to help you identify if fear is holding you back and how you can overcome it, so you can move into a life of freedom and success...
Flag 1 - You feel guilty about your success.
No matter how big or small, you feel guilty because your friends, family or co-workers haven't had the same success.
Flag 2 - You don't tell other people about your accomplishments.
You think they're too small to be acknowledged, so you think 'nobody will care'.
Flag 3 - You procrastinate.
Or what's worse, you avoid big projects or opportunities that could lead to your recognition or success.
Flag 4 - You self-sabotage your dreams and goals.
You've convinced yourself that you're not good enough to achieve what you want in life. You unconsciously believe that you're not worthy of success.
Flag 5 - You believe that if you reach success you won't be able to maintain it.
Then, if you fail you'll end up in a worse place than where you started. So you think, 'why bother'?
Now, if you've identified having any (or even all) of these red flags in your life, don't panic! There are many strategies that you can use to overcome your fear of success...
How To Overcome Your Fear of Success:
If you'd like to overcome your fear of success, I'd recommend you start facing them little by little. Just take one tiny step toward your goal each day.
I'm not saying it will be easy, but the more you bring them to the surface and the more you analyze them rationally, the more you'll diminish their power and the faster you'll achieve your dreams.
Take a realistic look at what is likely to happen if you reach your goals, rather than looking at what you hope or fear will happen.
Another useful technique is to address your fears directly and then develop a backup plan. Let's say that you're afraid to get a promotion at your current job because in reality you fear that you'll not have enough time to spend with your loved ones.
Well, your back-up plan should start by assessing your workload and setting a set of rules where you'll always be home by a certain time.
So as you can see, this technique just requires some planning ahead and being assertive with your choices.
Always remember that success is a journey, not a destination. So don't forget to live your life with passion and enjoy it every step of the way. :)
