Finding Your INNER DIVA!!

Thought you might enjoy thinking about some of the reasons why we ladies sometimes struggle and feel overwhelmed and disconnected to ourselves and others...

Sometimes,It s because we are not CONNECTED to our INNER DIVA!

We have become so accustomed to trying to SHIFT and CHANGE our lives by searching for equality:

We are constantly

Trying to find a better job
Make more money
Find “MR RIGHT”
Lose weight
Look after our extended family - parents, children, husbands, bosses!
Be a top chef,cleaner, fashion icon, manager, driver and many other roles.

Because of this we are STRETCHED in every direction like an elastic band and then POP we end up used and shriveled in the corner! Sometimes we´ve spent so much time basically trying to change EVERYTHING about ourselves - that eventually the plates that we´ ve been working so hard to keep spinning, come crashing to the ground and it seems that just when we´ve found mastery in one area of our lives, things can fall apart in the other.

Just when your CAREER is cruising along at full speed, you realise that your SEX LIFE has broken down by the side of the road or... when you finally manage to create a sense of balance in the HOME and a strong connection with your family and kids, you wake up one morning to discover that you can no longer do up your jeans!! This imbalance can leave us SEE-SAWING between feelings of complete EXHILARATION and then utter POWERLESSNESS!! You see,when the approach we are using to attain SUCCESS is out of alignment with our TRUE natures , our emotions become STRESSED and that affects the outcomes we ATTRACT!

Common scenarios like those i mentioned above, suggest that while we girls most certainly have come a LONG way, we still have a LONG way to go to create the 100% fulfilment that we are searching for! We have been looking for SO long for equality, we have lost our true FEMININE selves!

You see the MASCULINE approach to success worked well for us in the BEGINNING and was a necessary step in our search for equality. However, the way men go about achieving THEIR goals is NOT how WE should be going about attaining OUR goals!

OUR generation of women, have taken on more and more of a MALE outlook in life and it s not working for us....but NOW.....thanks to the tips from the generations of the female DIVAS from a few decades ago,we are now getting poised to take the next step forward towards the realisation of our FULL FEMININE power!

And Soooo.... We are looking to get BACK our JOY, COMPASSION, SUCCESS and ABUNDANCE and we ARE! HOWEVER, unfortunately, since most of us are like vases in a predominately MALE dominated culture, the DIVA has not only NOT been talked about...she has been SUPPRESSED!!

Soooo... let´ s look at a new way of “how to be”

- one that embraces our NATURAL feminine power and one that will create the happiness, abundance,connection and success in every area of our lives!

Let´s learn how to unlock and embrace our INNER DIVA!! Let´s return to our TRUE FEMININE POWER and release the OLD ways we used to sympathetically create power that no longer serves us!! Lets find the BALANCE within us that´s in alignment with our FEMININE natures..This connection back to our true feminine power has always existed and now it is time for us to get it back!

We women have not EMBRACED our inner feminine nature or embodied the guidelines necessary to create the lives we want with ELEGANCE and FLOW!!

You see, when you get yourself into the thoughts a DIVA, your life begins to work in ways you never imagined!!

Ladies, you don´t have to struggle!! It´s your right to Create The Time For Your Life and achieve abundance in ALL areas of your life.. You can LEARN to create a life of joy, time, support, money and energy. All you have to do is reconnect with your inner DIVA!

Sooo...lets start by releasing...

CONTROL
EXCUSES
MANIPULATION
SELF PITY
BEING PUSHY
OR BEING A PUSHOVER

Here are a few ideas to unlocking the door to your feminine inner self

1.RELEASE....

Releasing and receiving go hand in hand.. We must LET GO to clear space in order for the new to enter. The DIVA embodies BOTH as part of the creative process!!

Sooo.. what are YOU willing to RELEASE in your life so that you can bring in more of what you DESIRE

2.INTERCONNECTEDNESS

You need to experience (some of you for the very first time) the feeling of DEEP connection to yourself and to one another.. When you are feeling connected, you are primed for accepting anything in the material world.

Soooo...LEARN how to allow yourself to be supported by others so you can FEEL the connection to EVERYONE in your life! This is a big one for most women and when you can CONNECT with one another and join together as a COMMUNITY you are in the balanced state of the feminine self!

Sooo...What can you ASK for help with and what can you do to GIVE help to others?

3.RECEIVING

A DIVA not only expects..but is fully OPEN to receiving the gifts AWAITING her! You need to understand and release the thoughts and excuses that stop you from allowing yourself to receive.

4 IMAGINING

IMAGINE what it would feel like to have harmony in ALL areas of your life. The DIVA knows how to have balance in all areas of life and those of you that have EASE and FLOW will already know what it feels like to feel abundance. Do you know WHY you are happy and connected to your field of energy?

5.ELEGANCE AND FLOW

A DIVA doesn't FORCE her way through life, nor does she struggle to “make it happen”!!.. Instead she basks in the flow and grace of life. She heeds the call of inspired action ... and is in a place of ease and elegance!!

6. SELF LOVE

The greatest gift we can give ourself is unconditional love. From caring for yourself, all good flows..DIVAS know that their outer skin is a direct reflection of the HONOR and AFFINITY they hold of themselves.

So.... what does the EMPOWERED and FEMININE Diva look and feel like.. There are no words to describe it. There is only EXPERIENCE!

7.INTUITIVENESS

The SEED of the DIVA S power is her “intuition”. She HONORS and TRUSTS that small voice within her...that inner guidance! She can then shift her outer skin and translate it to creating the life she desires!!

SOOO....how about trying meditation to help you on your way! You could use mediation to IMAGINE and EXPECT...think the thoughts of a DIVA and feel the feelings of a DIVA. At those times be aware of yourself - your female thoughts, your body AND your positive energy.. and remember men love it.. men LOVE DIVA energy It is in your SEXINESS and feminine VULNERABILITY.. that your power truly lies!!!

Other Tips..

1. Always make clear decisions.. know what you want

2.. Always imagine the future you want

3. Then create your reality!!

Soooo... will you try to use your inner DIVA energy?

You decide!!

Are you going to flow ELEGANTLY and GRACEFULLY, and respond to challenges with EASE and GRACE, always knowing that you will GROW from ANY experience, CONFIDENT that when you are feeling BALANCED you will be.. sexy, healthy, powerful, funny, energetic, loving and loved.

SOOO...WILL YOU shift your INNER self enough so that your outer life will HAVE to change ... Its your choice.. Remember... A DIVA is not afraid to SHOW and FEEL her emotions.....no one ever died from feeling their emotions!!

A DIVA creates what she want to create... You have to THINK to FEEL and FEEL to THINK..

Sooo..always.step back and look at the large picture instead of chasing energy that is NEGATIVE

Try and look at everything from a healthier perspective. A DIVA always looks at everything from a different ANGLE!

A DIVA comes from COMPASSION!!

A DIVA always looks for the positive in EVERYONE

A DIVA always FORGIVES!